How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 00:19
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
That's it for today.
What do you like about McDonald's?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What can you do if you are a full-grown adult, but never experienced being a child?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What makes someone feel "rich enough" in different societies?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What's the hardest part about marriage that no one ever talks about?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What does it mean if you dream your dad died?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Does not procrastinate.
What I need from you?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
What is the most craziest dream you ever had?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
What are the extra benefits of a smart TV?
Making more friends is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Why does cocaine makes me want to dress up and get fuck
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Ask yourself:
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Do not set goals—set systems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.